Bodywork, slowly & attentively.

Tantric massage gets misunderstood a lot. People come expecting one thing — usually the version they've encountered on the internet — and find something rather different waiting.

What it actually is, the way we work with it, is closer to bodywork than to anything else. It's slow. Attentive. There's breath, stillness, a lot of listening. The point isn't sensation for its own sake but reconnection — getting back in touch with a body you might have stopped quite living in, or with feelings that have got buried under years of being busy.

That sounds abstract, I know. In practice it tends to be quite ordinary. Someone arrives carrying something — a long-running problem, a difficulty they haven't been able to talk about, sometimes just a sense of being a stranger to themselves — and we work, gently, with whatever's there.

The sessions take place at The Workshop, a long-established naturist practice in Royston, on the Hertfordshire–Cambridgeshire border. Quiet, private, appointment only.

Tantric therapy isn't one thing. Sessions look quite different depending on who's in front of us, and what someone might find useful in the work varies just as much.